Orgasm between men and women have differences. If you are a man, it is important to understand the signs of a woman's orgasm so that intimate relationships with your partner are more harmonious and feel enjoyable.
Orgasm is a condition when a person reaches a peak or climax in sexual activity. Women have two sensitive areas on the intimate organs that are often referred to as the orgasm center, namely the G-spot and clitoris. Both are very sensitive because they have many peripheral nerves. G-spot located on the upper wall of the vagina, while the clitoris is located on the top outside of the vagina.
To achieve orgasm, try to try sex positions that are comfortable and suitable for you and your partner, for example the missionary position, doggy style, or the position of the woman on top.
Recognizing the Signs of a Female Orgasm
Orgasms don't just happen to young women. Older women can still enjoy orgasm, and even more easily, because they are generally well acquainted with her body's reactions and feel comfortable with her partner.
There are several recognizable signs of female orgasm, including:
- Increased heart rate, blood pressure and breathingWhen a woman orgasm, usually the breath will increase, appear gasping and blood vessel dilation occurs. Not infrequently this condition is followed by a grasping reflex in the hands and feet.
- nipples menhotNot only around the female sex organs, orgasm can also be seen from the tightened nipples. The areola, or the dark area around the nipple, also appears to widen during orgasm.
- Face that looks blushSigns of female orgasm that are also visible are redness of the face due to increased blood flow. Actually, the increase in red color is not only on the face, but also in various other parts of the body.
- Muscle contractions around intimate organsMuscle contractions around the pelvis and around the uterus will occur when a woman has an orgasm. Women with orgasm will also feel the vaginal wall throbbing, with different intensity in each woman. In some women, these contractions can cause cramping after orgasm or uncomfortable dysorgasmia.
- Movement reflexOrgasm is controlled by the autonomic nervous system, so the sign of a woman's orgasm often triggers a reflex action. For example, muscle spasms in several parts of the body, the appearance of certain gestures, to make sounds without realizing it.
- Feeling out of controlOrgasm can cause the brain to lose control for a while. This is because the part of the brain that controls the action does not work during orgasm, causing the sensation of being out of control.
- The body becomes relaksSeveral hormones will be released by the body including endorphins and prolactin after orgasm. The release of this hormone makes women feel relaxed. There is also the hormone oxytocin which will fill the brain after orgasm, thus triggering the emergence of a woman's romantic feelings towards her partner. That's why, many women who want to hug or chat after orgasm.
Basically, not all women have the same sensitive areas. In addition to understanding the signs of a woman having an orgasm, it is important for you to always communicate with your partner to know the sensitive areas in having sex. This is important so that the husband and wife relationship remains warm and harmonious.