Domestic life does not always run smoothly and according to expectations. In fact, not a few married couples are faced with the test of the presence of a third person. So, what are the signs that can appear when your husband is in love with another woman?
As the honeymoon period ends in the early years of marriage, there are many things that can happen in a household. One or two things small or big can make a husband feel less cared for, lose his ego and self-esteem, disappointed with the attitude and nature of his partner, to feel dissatisfied in matters of bed.
This is a sign that your husband loves another woman
The reasons above are certainly not trivial reasons, because these can make husbands turn away and love other women.
Before your marital relationship worsens, there are several signs you can watch for in your husband if he loves another woman, including:
1. Feels away from you
When a husband has an affair, the husband and wife relationship will usually feel more bland. Romantic habits that he used to do every day, for example kissing your forehead when you wake up or doing pillow talk before going to bed, it usually goes away, and if you do, it feels like you have to.
2. His appearance is getting better
If your husband previously ignored or seemed indifferent to his appearance, he may pay more attention to his appearance when he is in love with another woman. It could also be, he suddenly likes to exercise and eat healthy foods to keep his body in shape, wears clothes that are always new and neat, often uses perfumed oil, and often arranges his hair.
3. Spending more time with his cell phone
Generally, when at home, married couples prefer to chat with their partners while being spoiled. However, if your husband is in love with another woman, chances are he will spend more time on his cell phone. The excuses were varied, ranging from work matters or just chatting with old friends.
In addition, he will also forbid you to touch his cell phone, whatever the reason. In fact, not a few men often take their phone with them when they are in the bathroom, or install a password, so that his wife's infidelity is not exposed.
4. Decreased sexual activity
When your husband cheats on you or loves another woman, the focus is no longer on you. As a result, both of you can decrease your sexual activity. In fact, he can also not hesitate to refuse your request to have sex, you know.
5. Rarely at home
Another sign that is most prominent is that the husband is less often at home. If it's usually weekends he definitely makes time for family time, when having an affair, he will look for reasons to leave the house, for example hanging out with his friends or playing sports.
6. Easily offended and angry
Married men actually know that getting into a relationship and falling in love with another woman is a mistake. As a result, when he keeps doing this, there will be a conflict in his mind.
Unfortunately, this inner conflict is often justified by a man by blaming his wife, for example by thinking, "I need another woman's attention because my wife is not paying attention to me."
This kind of thinking often turns out to be irritable and blaming. In fact, the husband may not hesitate to get angry and speak harshly to his wife over trivial matters.
7. Soaring expenses
Every household certainly has financial expenses. However, when husbands are “playing with fire” with other women, expenses can spike without it being clear where they are going, be it from savings or credit card use. This can make your financial situation worse.
Those are a series of signs when your husband loves another woman that you need to pay attention to and be aware of. Try to cool your head when you spot these signs. Invite your husband to talk nicely and calm yourself first.
If your husband is currently in a relationship with another woman, don't be in a hurry to decide for a divorce. Anger and disappointment is a very normal reaction when you find out your husband is cheating on you, but any decisions you make in your household must be thought through with a cool head.
It's important to calm yourself first and don't rush into making a decision. If it is necessary, you can discuss this household problem with a psychologist or marriage consultant to get the right solution so that your marriage can be saved.